Tips & Thoughts

IMHO "In My Humble Opinion" on: Romance. Family. Work. Play. Community. Giving Back.

I Want to Play!!!

Play Play Play!! Whatever you are doing right now, step outside and play! It's so fun out there. Why are we stuck inside? It's like a prison in here, no light, no fresh air, no fun. Outside is where it's happening and playing is what is happening. Do you actually...

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Dangerous Optimism?

We all hear these things, "Hang in there, it will get better." , "This too shall pass", "Think of the glass as half full, not half empty.". Our world is filled with this positivity, these inspirations and the "be happy-spin" spreading everywhere. Hey, I get it. I do...

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Want vs Need? Huh?

I say I want this (money, global and grand career goals) yet when I look at my actions they are inconsistent with that. That direction I go to instead; to being home with my kids, nurturing relationships, helping others, is clearly what I want and where I want to be....

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Be Open or Brace Myself?

Do we open ourselves or brace ourselves?  A situation is presenting itself. Do you find you are a bracer or an opener? There is no hard and fast rule. Both have their place. To open yourself and to brace yourself are necessary, not just one or the other.  It's like...

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Lean Softer

When in doubt and when you can, lean toward the softer side. The soft lean. Lean Softer, with me and Larry Pegg.

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Just Know It

Let yourself just know it. Just know it. Don't ask beyond, like "what to do about it". Just know it. (and leave it at that.) Just know...NOT DO!! There is nothing that needs to be done. It's the knowing that is necessary and that will take care of everything else. I...

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Kidney Transplant

Exactly three weeks ago, May 11, 2016, I flew to LA to be involved in a transplant surgery. I was going to donate my left kidney to a beautiful woman named Randy. I worked for her and her family 21 years ago as their nanny. It never felt like a decision for me. I just...

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Past Life Pull

Sometimes our uncontrollable draw to another person or relationship doesn't make sense - until you factor in a past life - and then...voila! There's no such thing as time anyway!! 😉 with special guest: Heidi Light...

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Instant Change is Possible

All it takes is a second to have and make the changes you want...the changes we all want!  Change always happens in a split second. We can do that globally, starting here and now. with special guest: Heidi Light...

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